New Canaan honors veterans at God's Acre
At 11 a.m. Monday, church bells rang through the cool November morning as New Canaanites held a moment of silence on God's Acre in honor of veterans.
Julie Butler, whose eldest son, Blake Flannery, is a staff sergeant in the U.S. Marine Corps., was the featured speaker of the town's annual Veterans Day commemoration. Butler spoke about what it's like for the family of a soldier deployed.
"There are sleepless nights and anxious days," she said. "Each deployment feels like Russian roulette. Will he come back with severe wounds? Will he ever come back?"
Flannery has been deployed overseas four times, including to Fallujah, Iraq, in 2004. Butler said that while her two younger sons think of him as invincible, as a mother, she's all too aware of his mortality. She recalled checking up on him as an infant in the middle of the night to make sure he was breathing. She said two weeks ago he called to say his planned deployment had been canceled.
"I could hear the disappointment in his voice and he could hear the relief in mine," she said.
Even through the worry, she is happy with his career choice and proud of him, she said. She's not the only one proud of him, of course. Several years ago, when he came home from a deployment in Iraq, Police Chief Leon Krolikowski, who was captain at the time, arranged for a police escort from Exit 36 of the Merritt Parkway to the family's home.
More InformationIn Flanders' Fields
By John McCrae
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
Roughly 100 people, including veterans and town officials, gathered on God's Acre. New Canaan Veterans of Foreign Wars Commander Peter Langenus officiated the ceremony, at the conclusion of which he read the poem "In Flanders' Fields," by John McCrae, as he's done for several years at the Veterans Day ceremony.
Following the event, attendees were invited to the Outback Teen Center for refreshments.
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